{"id":735,"date":"2024-09-11T21:08:47","date_gmt":"2024-09-11T21:08:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/makeitgo.com\/?p=735"},"modified":"2024-09-11T21:08:47","modified_gmt":"2024-09-11T21:08:47","slug":"working-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/makeitgo.com\/?p=735","title":{"rendered":"Working with Me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Communication Protocols:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For detailed information and scheduling, I prefer e-mail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Texting is fun, but exhausting. There are days when I will have to wait hours before texting you back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every Monday, I go incommmunicado. Necessary, but I realize it&#8217;s annoying for others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ll evaluate the information you bring before I decide whether I trust you, like you, endorse you, or want you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Interrupting<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.inc.com\/jessica-stillman\/what-counts-as-a-rude-interruption-depends-on-your-gender-study-confirms.html\">What Counts as a Rude Interruption Depends on Your Gender, Study Confirms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Male listeners were more likely to view women who interrupted another speaker in the audio clips as ruder, less friendly and less intelligent than men who interrupted &#8211; using the same pre-written and acted scripts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Deborah Tannen:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>As a linguist who studies the mechanics of conversation, I\u2019ve observed and documented that beginning to talk while another is talking can be a way of showing enthusiastic engagement with what the speaker is saying. Far from silencing them, it can be encouragement to keep going. That\u2019s a practice that I call \u201ccooperative overlapping.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Anil Dash, CEO, most recently of Glitch:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>It feels so validating to hear this has a name! I really struggle with talking over people (I understand many experience this very negatively), but it&#8217;s an incredibly difficult pattern to change because it&#8217;s literally how I grew up communicating enthusiasm and support.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Deborah Tannen again:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If &#8216;Don&#8217;t interrupt me&#8217; is sometimes a reasonable request, so is &#8216;Don&#8217;t just sit there! Please overlap &#8212; cooperatively!&#8217;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.inc.com\/jessica-stillman\/conversation-style-interruption-cooperative-overlapping.html\">A Linguist Explains There Are 2 Conversational Styles. Knowing Which You Prefer Can Make You More Successful<\/a> (Inc.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s a practical article about handling different interruption types: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/conversational-interruptions-vs-overlaps-learning-recognize-mclean-dxrwc\">Conversational Interruptions vs. Overlaps: Learning to Recognize the Difference to Promote Team Creativity<\/a><main class=\"main papabear:flex papabear:w-content-max-w papabear:mx-auto papabear:pt-desktop-content-top-margin mamabear:pt-desktop-content-top-margin\n        \" id=\"main-content\" role=\"main\"><section class=\"core-rail mx-auto papabear:w-core-rail-width mamabear:max-w-[790px] babybear:max-w-[790px]\"><div class=\"details mx-details-container-padding\"><article class=\"article-main relative flex-grow pulse\"><header><section class=\"core-section-container relative my-3\"><h1 class=\"pulse-title text-display-md text-color-text lg:text-display-lg font-bold w-11\/12\"><\/h1><h1 class=\"pulse-title text-display-md text-color-text lg:text-display-lg font-bold w-11\/12\"><\/h1><\/section><\/header><\/article><\/div><\/section><\/main><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Communication Protocols: For detailed information and scheduling, I prefer e-mail. 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